From Pastor Jacqui Caetano (6Sep2026)
Romans 2 reminds us that God is kind, but he is not soft. His kindness leads us
toward repentance, not complacency. That truth has sat with me deeply in recent
weeks as I found myself, twice, indirectly judged for being South African. Each time I
had to pause, check my spirit, and choose my response carefully.
Although I was born in South Africa, I have lived in New Zealand for three decades and
spent 24 years in Swaziland and Botswana. Only the first 13 years of my life — and the
first three years of our married life — were lived in South Africa. Over the years, my
faith has grown, my worldview has widened, and I have deliberately chosen to love
people as Jesus loved. I’m a learner by nature. At Carey Baptist College I took every
cultural-interrogation course available and pledged to be inclusive as Jesus was. I also
learned how closely the histories of New Zealand and South Africa mirror one another
in colonialism and segregation.
These presenting problems often trace back to deeper historical wounds —
colonialism, segregation, and the wars of the past that shape our phenomenology. We
are all recovering from colonial systems, even our children to the third and fourth
generation. To break that underlying rebellion and what Scripture calls “as witchcraft”,
we must see ourselves through Jesus.
For millennia, discrimination has been directed toward dark-skinned people. Rosa
Parks’ refusal to give up her seat in the 1960s exposed it. The 2021–22 Black Lives
Matter movement exposed it again. Do things change? Perhaps on the surface. But the
older we get, the harder it becomes to confront our blind spots. We may say, “I’m not
racist, but…”
Racism, discrimination, and separatism are everywhere; they simply arrive in different
packaging. Our worldviews are shaped by upbringing, parents, bias, careers, cultural
lenses, blind spots, and judgments — what philosophers call phenomenology. Yet
God reshapes us by His Spirit when we bring our whole selves to him. Sometimes he
exposes things in us through others.
These attitudes still exist around the world, and they exist right here on our doorstep.
In a multicultural church, this is something we must work on every day looking at
Jesus. Romans 2 is worth reading. And if you want to reflect further, watch the movies
Uproar and All Saints starring John Corbett — both explore the courage required to
confront division and choose unity. (John 17)
Pastor Jacqui






